Obituaries

Our family lost a truly special person on April 10, 2025—our beloved father and friend, Elmer Richard Silacci. He was a kind and gentle soul, known by many for his ever-present smile and warm, steady temperament.

In addition to being a devoted father to three children, Richard had a distinguished 36-year career at IBM as a field engineer, where he earned a reputation for dedication, innovation, and patience. Outside of work, he was a gifted hobbyist with an uncanny ability to fix just about anything—often with nothing more than a toothpick in hand. Among his many passions, he had a deep love for antique clocks, once synchronizing 32 of them to tick and chime in perfect unison. His knack for problem-solving reflected not only his technical skill but also his remarkable patience and persistent spirit.

For more than 25 years, Richard met the challenges of Parkinson’s disease with quiet courage, determination, and resilience. Even at 85, his commitment to staying independent was nothing short of inspiring. In a courageous and pioneering act, he volunteered for a groundbreaking clinical study involving the implantation of a Deep Brain Stimulator—contributing to advancements in Parkinson’s treatment and helping future patients through his willingness to lead the way.

He will be forever remembered for his love of cars, clocks, computers and electronics, WWII planes and stories, Star Trek -the original, spaghetti westerns, and music of all genres—but most of all, for his joyful smile and the kindness he shared with everyone around him.

Richard leaves behind a legacy of love through his children—Rick, Ryan (and wife Bridget), and Nicole—his grandchildren: Jamie, Janae, and April, and his great-grandchildren: Giovanni, Armani, Marcelino, and Adonis. He will be missed more than words can say.

A Memorial Service will be held for Richard on Saturday, May 3rd, 12pm at Fremont Memorial Chapel in Fremont.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations are made in his honor to the Michael J. Fox Foundation.