Nicolee Monica Bucol

6/26/1963 - 5/17/2013

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Obituary For Nicolee Monica Bucol

Nikki M. Bucol, a resident of Manteca, CA, passed away on Friday, May 17, 2013 surrounded by her family. She is the cherished daughter of Anthony G. Bucol of Delhi, CA, Gloria Bucol Gates of Fremont, CA, and the beloved step-daughter of George T. Gates of Fremont, CA. Nikki was born on June 26, 1963 in Oakland, CA. She grew up in Newark, CA, and graduated from Memorial High School in 1981. She was sadly preceded in death by her older brother Steven in 1980 and by her younger brother Scott in 1999. Nikki was a graduate of Saint Mary's College Paralegal Program and was employed by an Oakland law firm for over 26 years.

Nikki grew up in a large extended family and in addition to her parents and "bonus dad", she is survived by many uncles, aunts, cousins, nieces, and nephews and her honorary "little sister", Tanya Hullana, who lovingly cared for her while she was ill. Special thanks to her cousins Kathy Shaw, Terri Ballantyne, and Allison McCrossen, and Cindy Jamero for "being there" for Nikki. She also leaves behind many friends, including her long-time friends, Ken Scott of Lathrop, CA, and Rochelle Bernard of Pleasanton, CA.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, May 28, from 4:30-8pm with a recitation of the Rosary at 6:30pm at Fremont Chapel of the Roses, 1940 Peralta Blvd., Fremont, CA 94536. Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, May 29, 10am at Old Mission San Jose Church, 43300 Mission Blvd., Fremont, CA 94539. Burial will follow at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Hayward, CA.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Nikki's memory may be made to the family.

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  • 10/01/2021

    Where do I begin? We have been through so much together in the 45 years that I have known you. You were my rock, and no matter how much time passed between conversations, we never struggled to pick it back up where we left off. I'm not ready to let go, to say goodbye to the best friend in the world. I love you like a sister, and that will never change. You will always be in my heart, a part of me, so I won't say goodbye. Like an ocean breeze, you are free now, my sister. Love you forever.

  • 10/01/2021

    Although I moved away from Indian Wells Drive in Newark in 1975, I have a memory of Nikki from 3rd grade. Our teacher, Mrs. Johnson, had a variety show and I remember Nikki being chosen to be the "princess". I thought she made the most beautiful princess with her dark hair and dark eyes. I remember Nikki as such a sweet, quiet girl and am thankful to have known her. Rest peacefully, Nikki. xoxo Barbara

  • 10/01/2021

    I really hope that my sons will share the same love and respect for each other that you and your brothers shared. I know we weren't able to share many memories with one another, but thank you so much for reaching out every once in awhile. Your message to me that "blood is blood and we will always be family" will be something I definitely raise my sons to believe in and rely on. Rest easy and much love, cuz...

  • 10/01/2021

    Dear family and friends, Nikki, you were so special to all our hearts. You will be remembered and cherished forever and always. We remember your beauty, kindness, quietness and helpfulness. I have fond memories of you playing with our 3 boys and your brothers when we were happy neighbors. Then we moved North from San Pablo and your family moved to the south bay,and we didn't see each other until you looked us up and your family came to visit. We are thankful that you reconnect our families. Love, Phyllis McKeever

  • 10/01/2021

    Nikki is at peace now from a recent life of pain & struggle. Most comforting, I think, is that she is in the embrace of her brothers and our loving God. She will be missed by so many. I offer special prayers for my dear childhood friend, Gloria, who has suffered more than any mother can imagine. Love of family and friends, faith and hope will be there for you always. Love & Peace

  • 10/01/2021

    Ah, little Nikki, child of my dear friends: Jesus will keep you in His bosom, and He will comfort your parents and your many other loved ones until that day when He will come to bring you all together for eternity. We believe that Glory is a place of grace and peace. Rest, now.

  • 10/01/2021

    So sorry for your loss. May God watch over your beloved daughter Nikki and may he comfort those left behind. Sylvia (Garden Club member)

  • 10/01/2021

    Nikki was and always will be the love of my life. We were both always excited to see each other every day. She is my Angel. I know she is in heaven with our little girl Alyssa and her brothers waiting for me. She will always be my spiritual wife.

  • 10/01/2021

    Dear Gloria and Family, What sad news. I am so sorry. Thank you for letting me know. You are in my thoughts. Love, Suzanne

  • 10/01/2021

    I was so sad to here of your passing . I was happy that we had reconnected the past few years since hooking up on FB. Private message talking about our childhood people . You will be missed . But one thing that made me happy was that you finally got your little kitty you took so long to search for . I told you the right one would pick you and she did . I am so glad you are free from pain . If you see my brother tell him Hi .

  • 10/01/2021

    I beleive your dying hour will be the best hour you have ever known. Your last moment will be your richest, better than the day of your birth. It shall be the beginning of heaven, the rising of a sun that shall not go down, an eternity with the Lord. We love you Nikki and we look forward to the that day we see you again.

  • 10/01/2021

    although we have not seen each other in almost 30 years, thanks to facebook, we were able to reconnect and stay in touch for the last 5 years i got to know you all over again and i'll miss you.

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